i get why you're sending me this, and i appreciate the thought, but i was talking about 2d girls. because i read yuri. i added real girls because i added my girlfriend, who is a real living girl, onto the page. This is obvious.

people have sent me weird things like this for a long time. i feel like so much of it ties to me being a lesbian who mainly talks about girls and aims content at girls. as such, every word i use is to capture diversity of womanhood. what one person may find affirming may be upsetting to another, especially when you begin to befriend girls who experience intersexuality (or even just hormonal differences) who have womanhood stripped from them all the time.

to add on, all of my experiences about womanhood are explored in my works, like my games and artwork. i know plenty of people engage with me and don't play my games, but even this site has a bunch of things that make my thoughts and feelings obvious. 

I'll also add last thing.  this isn't just me saying this as random cis girl. it's me saying it as a black girl, as black person who's blackness goes beyond the scope of my gender or sexuality or any other identity. i don't believe anyone when they just say 'they care about black women' or mention them in passing for the name of inclusivity or have some BLM blinkie because a lot of the time the people who do that are racist. notable people who do this are racist actually.

people who aren't in that minority don't realize because the person will just go "i care about black people." it's shallow to me. i raise my eyebrow at how people word things all the time but i don't ask them "How do you feel about black people?" 

If I really care, I explore their works and writings to see how they feel. And some people might raise an eyebrow at this because a lot of people never mention black people or consume their work or care about any sort of media with black people, and yeah, that is true. but i don't talk about that on my site. i talk about it with other black girls, including black trans women, in private, because it is something white people cannot understand.

I really don't like talking about blackness in spaces with lots of white people which is basically most queer spaces online, but I realize I should get this out of the way eventually.

TLDR: It is still offensive to me to see I am a lesbian, see a random word I use, devoid it of context when it has context in the original text, and then ask me about it when my site has the answers if you just read or control f search. And as a black person, I find it more offensive because of my own lived experiences being a minority in queer spaces.